We always hear these statements.......
Our child was born unplanned....
It was an accident...
He/she came out of the blue....
I was shocked that I was pregnant....
And I always wonder: Was it an accident?
Is it that we can't stop the soul from being entitled to be born in this world?
could it be unplanned in human terms but planned in a divine sense?
ReplyDeleteMust be a divine plan...
ReplyDeleteI quite dislike when people say that. It is very hurtful. And also when people say "oh, we always wnated a son and her birth was a total shock. We had so been hoping for a boy!"
ReplyDeleteAnd determination of gender is also pre-determined too. I guess. Than why to blame the child or mom for her gender.
ReplyDeleteThis is awesom. Determination of gender and placement of rooh in the baby during intra-uterine life etc.I have learnt more from the Qur'an and Hadees in later years than I did in my learning of embryology as med. student
ReplyDeleteRefer to Ayat (most commonly) in S M'ominoon and S. Hajj.
Maybe I shall write more details later in my own blog if I find a willing audience.
Please share your views and your learning !!
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