Saima hum se poochti hai ke use kiya kerna chahiye? - koi batlaye ke ham batlaiN kiya?
Saima ke sawal mukhtasar zaroor hain magar mushkil hain. Saima jub America aai to sirf 5 baras ki thi. Yahin ke ma'hol main rach bas gai. Jub 17 baras ki thi to uski zindagi main aik chota sa waqiya huwa. Aik 'saturday night' night club ke baad woh aik Pakistani ke ghar ther gai aur ha'amila (pregnant) ho gai.
- It was a one night stand which turned into a nightmare.
Us ne 'abortion' kerwane se inkaar ker diya. Ghar walon ne us waqt ki choti si 'Pakistani community' main izzat bachane ke liye use LA se Florida bhej diya. Wahan aik hospital main aik khubsurat bachhi ko janam dene ke baad usne bachhi ko adoption main de diya. Jis OB/Gyn ne use treat kiya usi ne bachhi ko adopt ker liya. Bachhi ke behtar mustaqbil ki khatir us ne ye karwa ghunt pi liya - and she moved on with her life. Is baat ko 22 baras guzar gaye.
Now she has a prosperous life with a loving husband and 2 nice kids. She has a beautiful house in the suburb with Lexus RX 470 and Audi 6 in driveway.
Saima mujh se 2 sawal poochti hai. Pehle sawal ka jawab to mere paas hai magar dusre ka nahi. Pehla sawal ye hai ke kiya ab use apni beti se 'contact' kerna chahiye? Saima beti ke qahar se darti hai magar mera khayal hai ke use phir bhi apni bachhi se zaroor 'contact' kerna chahiye.
Dusre sawal ka jawab mere paas nahi hai. Woh ab bhi us shaks ko jaanti hai jis ke nutfe se uski beti ne janam liya. Kiya use us shaks ko batana chahiye ke uski koi aik beti bhi hai. Us shaks ki apni aik aasuda zindagi hai. Aesa kerne se 2 abad khandan barbad ho sakte haiN. Saima kehti hai mera shohar mujh se bohat mohabbat kerta hai magar ander se woh bhi tumhari tarah aik kamina Pakistani mard hai!
kisi ki aankh agar jo num nahi hai
ye na samjho ke usko gum nahi hai
Saima ke sawal mukhtasar zaroor hain magar mushkil hain. Saima jub America aai to sirf 5 baras ki thi. Yahin ke ma'hol main rach bas gai. Jub 17 baras ki thi to uski zindagi main aik chota sa waqiya huwa. Aik 'saturday night' night club ke baad woh aik Pakistani ke ghar ther gai aur ha'amila (pregnant) ho gai.
- It was a one night stand which turned into a nightmare.
Us ne 'abortion' kerwane se inkaar ker diya. Ghar walon ne us waqt ki choti si 'Pakistani community' main izzat bachane ke liye use LA se Florida bhej diya. Wahan aik hospital main aik khubsurat bachhi ko janam dene ke baad usne bachhi ko adoption main de diya. Jis OB/Gyn ne use treat kiya usi ne bachhi ko adopt ker liya. Bachhi ke behtar mustaqbil ki khatir us ne ye karwa ghunt pi liya - and she moved on with her life. Is baat ko 22 baras guzar gaye.
Now she has a prosperous life with a loving husband and 2 nice kids. She has a beautiful house in the suburb with Lexus RX 470 and Audi 6 in driveway.
Saima mujh se 2 sawal poochti hai. Pehle sawal ka jawab to mere paas hai magar dusre ka nahi. Pehla sawal ye hai ke kiya ab use apni beti se 'contact' kerna chahiye? Saima beti ke qahar se darti hai magar mera khayal hai ke use phir bhi apni bachhi se zaroor 'contact' kerna chahiye.
Dusre sawal ka jawab mere paas nahi hai. Woh ab bhi us shaks ko jaanti hai jis ke nutfe se uski beti ne janam liya. Kiya use us shaks ko batana chahiye ke uski koi aik beti bhi hai. Us shaks ki apni aik aasuda zindagi hai. Aesa kerne se 2 abad khandan barbad ho sakte haiN. Saima kehti hai mera shohar mujh se bohat mohabbat kerta hai magar ander se woh bhi tumhari tarah aik kamina Pakistani mard hai!
kisi ki aankh agar jo num nahi hai
ye na samjho ke usko gum nahi hai
7 comments:
These 2 are actually one question. What she will say if her daughter will ask the name of father. She either take risk and open one pendora box or stay 'chup chaap'. Its all matter of choice. There is no patial truth.
Actually I have my own question for her.
What if her daughter seeks and finds her?
May be I have too many dramas of life.
Aakhir yeh zindagi kia aik drama nahin hay?
Sawal dodo mushkil hain behter khmoshi hi hay
Babar - I agree with you - its a pendora box!
Uncle - Actually thats how all this ordeal started as parents(doctor) who adopted this girl find and approached saima to let her know that now as her daughter is 21, she is entitle to look for biological parents on her own - and she may find her via records, face book and internet!!
ahaha, the internet again. yeh computer bhi ajeeb cheese hay
aik purana gana yad Aia
آپ لوگوں کی تفنّن طبع کے لئے
بڑا ہی سی آئ ڈی ہے یہ نیلی چھتری والا
ہر تالے کی چابی رکھّے ہر چابی کا تالا
never heard this song but make sense...
"Aapni hi Karni ka pahl hai Neekiyan Ruswaeen yaan" -
Tera Peecha karee gi teri parchaeenyan".
"Small error big explosion".
" Lemhoon ke Khata sadyoun ke saza".
The answer is very simple, very very simple.
The women needs to declare every body the truth and endure what comes after, this will stop further mishaps.
Beleive me this is not going to stop here, HUM RAHE NA RAHE, this will go very very deep and long.
So kill it now.
I was unable to complete my comment somehow.
Anon. agree with you realistically speaking but for the girl to face and the rest of the family is very disturbing, to say the least
truth is like you say
لمحوں کی خطا صدیوں کی سزا
One night stand is given no significance or taken too lightly but the consequences can be disastrous. Unfortunately it can happen to anybody C2H5OH or without it. Most people choose abortion, but that is also a similar sin and a better solution is marriage---I know you will not all agree but even this "marriage of convenience" can have as much chance of being successful and happy as any other.
Anyway for Saima that is not the question. I can only sympathize with her and with the father of the baby.
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