I Miss You - in French

 

Profession and People

 I always wondered in my life: Is it the personality that makes people choose a specific profession, or vice versa, meaning the type of profession changes people?

‏جو شخص اونٹ پالتا ھے ‏اس میں ضد کا مادہ پیدا ھوتا ھے۔ ‏اور جو شخص گھوڑے پالتا ھے اس میں تکبر آ جاتا ھے ‏جو شخص بھیڑ بکریاں پالتا ھے اس میں عاجزی پیدا ھوتی ھے۔ ‏لہذا جو شخص کتے پالتا ھے۔ اسے بھونکنے کی عادت پڑ جاتی ھے ۔ ‏ 

Fees!

 

The Best Compliment Ever!

"You make me want to be a better man.” 

 - One of the most iconic lines delivered with unforgettable depth by Jack Nicholson

Company and Solitude

 

Aurat

 

Connected by DNA

 

Be ashamed to die!

 

Humko lafzoN se naseehat nahi milne wali

 

We are the universe

 

Wow!

 

The Old Script!

 

Principles of High Value Men

(Not necessarily agreeing with all)

 

15 Rules For Men

(Found on the internet. Not necessarily to agree with all)

1. Never go back to the woman who cheated.

2. Never let a woman disrespect you.

3. Never shake a hand sitting down.

4. Never go broke to impress others.

5. Never eat the last piece of something you didn't buy.

6. Always have the ambition to be better.

7. Protect those who are behind you, and respect those who are beside you.

8. Take a 1-3 second pause after getting asked a question.

9. Don't beg for a relationship.

10. Work out at least 4x a week.

11. If you are not invited, don't ask to go.

12. Always carry cash.

13. Dress well, no matter what the occasion.

14. Listen, nod, and most of all make eye contact.

15. Find multiple ways to make money.

Soul Tribes

Many times in life, you meet a stranger and feel Ha! He or she looks so familiar... As Yogesh wrote and Mukeshji made it amar 

Kahi to ye, dil kabhi Mil nahi paate 

Kahi se nikal aaye Janmo ke naate

 

A leadership advice

When I was made chief resident, I was given some advice that I still carry with me.

Always keep a cool head without letting your feet go cold.

From the position of F*** You

 

Deceiving people

 

Cross!

"، ڈاکٹر داؤد رہبر نے پچاس کی دہائی میں قیام انقرہ کے دوران بپتسمہ لے لیا تھا ۔ ن م راشد صاحب نے کسی موقع پر ان سے کہا کہ باتوں اور خیالات سے تم ہم جیسے ہو، پھر یہ مسیحیت کا کیا پاکھنڈ بنا رکھا ہے ۔ رہبر صاحب نے دل چسپ جواب دیا جو کچھ یوں تھا کہ میں بطور انسان اندر سے بہت کم زور ہوں اور مجھے مایوسی کی انتہا پر پہنچ کر پاگل ہونے یا خود کشی سے بچنے کے لیے ایک نفسیاتی سہارا درکار ہوتا ہے۔ میں نے مارکیٹ میں دست یاب خدا کے جملہ ماڈلز پر نظر ڈالی تو سب سے زیادہ مجھے اس خدا نے اپنی جانب کھینچا جو میری نجات کی خاطر بے قصور سولی پر چڑھ گیا ، سو ۔۔" 

A letter to women - What makes men fall in love

 darlin'... I've talked about this, but I'll try to really bring it home

Most men aren’t sitting around with a scoreboard rating sexual techniques.

What we remember, what floors us, is the connection we feel with the woman we’re with.

Mind-blowing sex isn’t a trick. It’s not a move.

It’s the experience of being wanted, respected, and safe enough to let our guard down.

We guys don’t talk about this out loud, but here’s the real answer:

The best sex a man ever has is with a woman who actually likes him. Not performs for him. Not competes with ghosts.

Likes him. 

... that's it. No 'hacks', no internet 'tricks.'

A lot of women think they have to “do more” to keep a man’s interest. But what men crave more than technique is presence, someone who’s not treating intimacy like an audition.

If you really want to blow his mind?

Be confident in your own desire.

Nothing is sexier than a woman who knows she wants him and isn’t performing.

It's sooo true... 

Be responsive.

Men want to feel the effect they’re having on you. That’s what gets in our head forever.

.. we may be less emotionally intelligent... 

Communicate.

A simple “that feels good,” or “I love when you…” does more than any secret move in a magazine.

Match his pace, not porn’s. Men can sense when a woman is doing what she thinks she’s supposed to do rather than what she wants.

Let it be fun, not perfect.

Men remember laughter, comfort, chemistry.... not technique. 

A man doesn’t stay because the sex is the best he’s ever had.

He stays because the connection is the best he’s ever had.

If he’s into you, even simple sex is phenomenal.

If he’s not, even “mind-blowing” sex won’t make him stay.

So give him presence.

Give him honesty.

Give him the version of you that isn’t trying to compete with imaginary women.

 — not a trick, not a move, but you.

I wish more women understood this about a man