Sunday, May 24, 2020

ﻟﭩﮑﺘﯽ ﺗﺨﺘﯽ

اﯾﮏ ﮐﻮﭨﮭﮯ کی 
ﺗﮩﺬﯾﺐ ﯾﺎﻓﺘﮧ ﻃﻮﺍﺋﻒ ﻧﮯ
ﺩﺭﻭﺍﺯﮮ ﮐﮯ ﺑﺎﮨﺮ
ﻟﭩﮑﺘﯽ ﺗﺨﺘﯽ ﭘﺮ ﻟﮑﮭﻮﺍﯾﺎ
ﻋﺰﺕ ﺑﺮﺍﺋﮯ ﻓﺮﻭﺧﺖ ﮨﮯ
ﻣﮩﺬﺏ ﺣﻀﺮﺍﺕ
ﺁﻧﮯ ﺳﮯ ﭘﮩﻠﮯ
ﺍﭼﮭﺎ ﻏﺴﻞ ﻓﺮﻣﺎ ﻟﯿﮟ
ﺍﻭﺭ ﺟﯿﺒﻮﮞ ﻣﯿﮟ
ﺍﺷﺮﻓﯿﻮﮞ ﮐﻮ ﺍُﻭﻥ ﮐﯽ
ﺗﮭﯿﻠﯽ ﻣﯿﮟ ﮈﺍﻝ ﮐﺮ ﻻﺋﯿﮟ
ﻟﮩﺠﻮﮞ ﮐﻮ ﻧﺮﻡ ﺍﻭﺭ
ﺟﺬﺑﺎﺕ ﮐﻮ ﮔﺮﻡ ﺭﮐﮭﯿﮟ
ﺍﻭﺭ ﺧﯿﺎﻝ ﮐﺮ ﮐﮯ
ﭼﭙﻠﻮﮞ ﻣﯿﮟ ﻟﮕﺎ ﮐﯿﭽﮍ
ﺻﺎﻑ ﮐﺮﮐﮯ ﺁﺋﯿﮟ
ﮨﻤﺎﺭﺍ ﻓﺮﺵ
ﮨﻤﯿﮟ ﺭﺯﻕ ﺩﯾﺘﺎ ﮨﮯ
ﺍﺳﮑﯽ ﺑﮯ ﺣﺮﻣﺘﯽ ﻗﺎﺑﻞِ ﻗﺒﻮﻝ ﻧﮩﯿﮟ
شراب ﮐﻮﭨﮭﮯ ﻣﯿﮟ
ﻭﺍﻓر ﻣﻘﺪﺍﺭ ﻣﯿﮟ ﻣﻮﺟﻮﺩ ﮨﮯ
ﺑﺎﮨﺮ ﺳﮯ ﺧﺮﯾﺪ ﮐﺮ
ﻭﻗﺖ ﮐﺎ ﺿﯿﺎﻉ ﻧﮧ ﮐﺮﯾﮟ
ﺍﻭﺭ ﺩﻻﻝ ﮐﻮ ﺣﺮﺍﻡ
ﺍﯾﮏ ﭘﺎﺋﯽ ﺍﺩﺍ ﻧﮧ ﮐﺮﯾﮟ
ﺍﺳﮯ ﻣﻌﻘﻮﻝ مُعفضہ ﻣﻠﺘﺎ ﮨﮯ
ﺍﻟﺒﺘﮧ ﺑﺎﮨﺮ ﺭﮐﮭﮯ ﮔﺌﮯ
ﭼﻨﺪﮮ ﮐﮯ ﮈﺑﮯ ﻣﯿﮟ
ﺩﻝ ﮐﮭﻮﻝ ﮐﺮ ﭘﯿﺴﮧ ﮈﺍﻟﯿﮟ
ﺁﭘﮑﺎ عطیہ مفلس لوگوں کے  
گھر کی عزاتوں کو طوائف
بننے سے بچانے پر ﺧﺮﭺ ﮐﯿﺎ ﺟﺎﺗﺎ ﮨﮯ
ﺍﻭﺭ ﻣﮩﺮﺑﺎﻧﯽ ﮐﺮﮐﮯ
ﺭﺍﺕ ﮐﮯ ﺁﺧﺮﯼ ﭘﮩﺮ ﻣﯿﮟ
ﮐﻮﭨﮭﮧ ﺧﺎﻟﯽ ﮐﺮﺩﯾﺎ ﺟﺎﺋﮯ
ﮐﯿﻮﮞ ﮐﮧ ﻓﺮﺵ ﮐﯽ
ﺩﮬﻼﺋﯽ ﮐﮯ ﺑﻌﺪ
ﺗﮩﺠﺪ ﮐﯽ ﻧﻤﺎﺯ ﺍﺩﺍ ﮐﯽ ﺟﺎﺗﯽ ﮨﮯ___

Sunday, May 17, 2020

Defining moment

Pandemic has caused domestic fights to go up. I am not surprised. One of my close friends called me to go out with him as he had a huge argument with his son who is finishing college, has no job but needs to stay home. His son left the house to stay with other friends. We went out. I listened to his part of the story and his venting. In such a situation I try to use the middle ground of being a charasaz and being a naseh. During our conversation, he said a beautiful thing.

"Every relationship has a defining moment, and I don't want this fight to be a defining moment of our relationship. I didn't want to be a spineless father who tolerates bad habits - but at the same time, I don't want this fight to be the turning point of our relationship. It just doesn't worth."

Friday, May 15, 2020

سولہ سنگھار

Some people may find it interesting. Indian culture is well known with the word "sola singhar" for makeups used by women. When a woman has 16 singhar means she is fully 'beutified"!
  1. مانگ کا ٹیکا
  2. مانگ میں سیندور کی دھار
  3. بندیا
  4. آنکھ کا کاجل
  5. جھمکا یا بالی
  6. ناک کی نتھنی
  7. کلائی کی چوڑیاں
  8. ہاتھ کی انگوٹھیاں
  9. ہتھیلی اور دوسرے حصوں پر مہندی کی نقاشی
  10. کمر بند
  11. بازو بند
  12. عطر یا خوشبو
  13. گجرا
  14. پائل / پازیب
  15. بچھیا (پیر کی انگوٹھی)
  16. ہار۔۔۔۔۔

Monday, May 04, 2020

Nadan Insaan

Insaan bhi kitna nadan hai 

- pehli aadhi zindagi cheezain jamaa kerne ki koshish main laga rehta hai
~ baqi aadhi un ko bachane ki fikar main nikal deta hai...