Monday, December 02, 2024

Husband wife eating from one plate

 This couple just arrived from Pakistan due to the deteriorating situation there. 

"Bhai! Business to bohat achha tha - kabhi nahi socha Pakistan chorain ge - magar - bachhon ke mustaqbil ka dar tha. Aakihr kaar halaat se haar ker idhar aa gaye'.

I saw this couple three times at community events in the last few months, and I was intrigued that they always ate from one plate.

"How long have you guys been married?"

"About 20 years."

"Interesting. I am pretty impressed that you both always eat from one plate".

"We had an arranged marriage. The first few months were a little rough for us in understanding each other. At one such moment, my grandmother gave this tip to try. This was the most amazing thing that has happened in our lives. Over time, all fights vanished, and our understanding and love grew day by day".



4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Well it’s good to know that it can work maybe I can suggest it to the fighting couples in the family :)

Z ki diary said...

Give a shot!

bsc said...

Interesting. Even Quran mentions eating to gether or separately I grew up in big family and we all brothers sisters older and younger would eat one rice dish with hands froma a large plate
(Sehnak) and we were given instructions how to eat from your own side etc.That was before glasses and spoons forks enteres our home

mystic-soul said...

Uncle I fount it pretty interesting....