Community

 A female colleague made an interesting comment interestingly about the desi community (at least here in the USA). It was about another female colleague desperate to get her daughter married on the pretext that "umar nikalti ja rahi hai, log kiya kahain gey."

I don't agree completely, but it makes sense on many levels, at least for women in the community.

Yeah community!… gelee lakrioun ki tarahn hootay hein. Qarib aou to koi garmi nahi, aur dour sey sulagta hua dhuwan!