darlin'... I've talked about this, but I'll try to really bring it home
Most men aren’t sitting around with a scoreboard rating sexual techniques.
What we remember, what floors us, is the connection we feel with the woman we’re with.
Mind-blowing sex isn’t a trick. It’s not a move.
It’s the experience of being wanted, respected, and safe enough to let our guard down.
We guys don’t talk about this out loud, but here’s the real answer:
The best sex a man ever has is with a woman who actually likes him. Not performs for him. Not competes with ghosts.
Likes him.
... that's it. No 'hacks', no internet 'tricks.'
A lot of women think they have to “do more” to keep a man’s interest. But what men crave more than technique is presence, someone who’s not treating intimacy like an audition.
If you really want to blow his mind?
Be confident in your own desire.
Nothing is sexier than a woman who knows she wants him and isn’t performing.
It's sooo true...
Be responsive.
Men want to feel the effect they’re having on you. That’s what gets in our head forever.
.. we may be less emotionally intelligent...
Communicate.
A simple “that feels good,” or “I love when you…” does more than any secret move in a magazine.
Match his pace, not porn’s. Men can sense when a woman is doing what she thinks she’s supposed to do rather than what she wants.
Let it be fun, not perfect.
Men remember laughter, comfort, chemistry.... not technique.
A man doesn’t stay because the sex is the best he’s ever had.
He stays because the connection is the best he’s ever had.
If he’s into you, even simple sex is phenomenal.
If he’s not, even “mind-blowing” sex won’t make him stay.
So give him presence.
Give him honesty.
Give him the version of you that isn’t trying to compete with imaginary women.
— not a trick, not a move, but you.
I wish more women understood this about a man
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