Where Men and Women Differ

 

I don't know (either)

 

Pretty Accurate

 

Well Painted!

 

15 Rules For Men

(Found on the internet. Not necessarily to agree with all)

1. Never go back to the woman who cheated.

2. Never let a woman disrespect you.

3. Never shake a hand sitting down.

4. Never go broke to impress others.

5. Never eat the last piece of something you didn't buy.

6. Always have the ambition to be better.

7. Protect those who are behind you, and respect those who are beside you.

8. Take a 1-3 second pause after getting asked a question.

9. Don't beg for a relationship.

10. Work out at least 4x a week.

11. If you are not invited, don't ask to go.

12. Always carry cash.

13. Dress well, no matter what the occasion.

14. Listen, nod, and most of all make eye contact.

15. Find multiple ways to make money.

A letter to women - What makes men fall in love

 darlin'... I've talked about this, but I'll try to really bring it home

Most men aren’t sitting around with a scoreboard rating sexual techniques.

What we remember, what floors us, is the connection we feel with the woman we’re with.

Mind-blowing sex isn’t a trick. It’s not a move.

It’s the experience of being wanted, respected, and safe enough to let our guard down.

We guys don’t talk about this out loud, but here’s the real answer:

The best sex a man ever has is with a woman who actually likes him. Not performs for him. Not competes with ghosts.

Likes him. 

... that's it. No 'hacks', no internet 'tricks.'

A lot of women think they have to “do more” to keep a man’s interest. But what men crave more than technique is presence, someone who’s not treating intimacy like an audition.

If you really want to blow his mind?

Be confident in your own desire.

Nothing is sexier than a woman who knows she wants him and isn’t performing.

It's sooo true... 

Be responsive.

Men want to feel the effect they’re having on you. That’s what gets in our head forever.

.. we may be less emotionally intelligent... 

Communicate.

A simple “that feels good,” or “I love when you…” does more than any secret move in a magazine.

Match his pace, not porn’s. Men can sense when a woman is doing what she thinks she’s supposed to do rather than what she wants.

Let it be fun, not perfect.

Men remember laughter, comfort, chemistry.... not technique. 

A man doesn’t stay because the sex is the best he’s ever had.

He stays because the connection is the best he’s ever had.

If he’s into you, even simple sex is phenomenal.

If he’s not, even “mind-blowing” sex won’t make him stay.

So give him presence.

Give him honesty.

Give him the version of you that isn’t trying to compete with imaginary women.

 — not a trick, not a move, but you.

I wish more women understood this about a man

Types of women's relationship

 Women get into relationships for only three reasons

1. Emotional - if you get connected to her via kissing her mind

2. Carnal - if she just gets attracted to you at a pure lust level, a rare (but not so rare) entity

3. Transactional - If she gets something in return, mostly financial security or prestige

Beauties and the Beasts

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Quote - Men, Women and Peace

Men settle where there is peace, women bring peace where they're treated well. 

From the eye of a woman

‏منو بھائی کہتے ہیں "ایک عورت میرے پاس آئی جس کی آنکھیں سوجی ہوئی تھیں بے چاری روتی رہی ہو گی. اس نے کہا کہ ایک بچے کی گمشدگی کی خبر دینی ہے. اس نے کہا: چھ سال کا ہے، سات سال کا، محمد انور نام ہے اس کا.

میں نے کہا کپڑے کیسے پہنے ہوئے ہیں؟ اس نے بتایا کہ نیلے رنگ کی قمیض ہے ‏ہوائی چپل ہے۔ میں کہا شلوار؟ اس نے کہا کہ سفید، مگر اب تو میلی ہو گئی ہو گی.

اُس عورت کی اس بات سے میرے ذہن میں ایک عجیب سی بات آئی کہ اگر اس بچے کا باپ ہوتا اور خبر لکھواتا تو اُس نے سفید شلوار ہی لکھوانی تھی. لیکن ماں کیوں کہ اُسے روزانہ دُھلی ہوئی شلوار پہناتی ہوگی، تو اسے اس بات کا ‏احساس ہے. اس لیے اگر بہن بھی ہوتی تو یہی کہتی کہ اب تو میلی ہو چکی ہو گی. اس سے مجھے یہ احساس ہوا کہ عورت اور طرح سوچتی ہے مرد اور طرح سوچتا ہے.

ماں اور طرح سوچتی ہے بہن اور طرح سوچتی ہے، باپ اور بھائی اور طرح سوچتے ہیں.

اس بات نے مجھے ایک نیا احساس دیا کہ چیزوں کو اور ‏حالات کو عورت کی نگاہ سے دیکھنا بھی بہت اہم ہے.

یہ شاید ٹراٹسکی نے کہیں لکھا ہے کہ

"If you wan to change the situation, look at the situation with the eye of a woman".  

Key to spousal relationship

 "What do you think, what you need as the key for spousal relationship?"

"Respect or love?"

"Those may be right answers at lower level, but what makes a relationship really meaningful and successful is to hold difficult conversation when situation arise with kids, values, relatives, in-laws, finances, porn, attention, nagging, perceived cheating and others."

A woman!

 

What will men never get about women?

 What will men never get about women?

(someone posted on Quora)

Until high school, I thought the most beautiful girls always preferred the stud—a handsome guy with great hair and a fit body, the one with blue eyes, the kind you see in teenage movies.

Then, my reality started to crack.

I saw hot girls with odd-looking guys. Strange-looking guys. Men with outdated sense of fashion, if any. Men who needed to see the barber quickly.

“What the hell is going on?”

Society teaches us money and looks get you ass. And in a way, they are. But having those things does not guarantee success with women.

You can look fit and fresh, have a good job or run your business, be well-spoken, and still not get the girl. Reality is too dynamic and unexpected to be bound by rules.

Your attitude, confidence, and approach to life matter much more.

When you’re happy, everybody wants a piece of that happiness.

In the past ten years, I have met all sorts of men. The ones who “made it” with women were guys who had a life and were happy about it. Guys who had good intentions for the people around them.

They weren’t caught up with the latest pickup technique.

They shared their good vibe. The laughs and humor. The sense of comfort and calmness around them. And they kicked ass.

On Men, Women, Love, Lust, and Relationship

(Someone wrote on Quora)

 Whereas there will be a gap between the two sexual intercourses of the male...

He will jerk away from the female after the first mating.

And it is his nature to want to sleep.

Whereas the female nature is entirely opposite.

She is eager to hear those words from his mouth immediately after intercourse that will tickle her...

She doesn't know that a man cannot love after love

He may yearn for love after the war.

He basically plays the role of hunter?

Yes, in civilized society, this tendency is covered in beautiful clothes.

Hitler, the world's greatest dictator, used to kill five hundred men every day and write love songs with his head in his girlfriend's lap.

His cheeks would get wet while describing the past moments of separation from her.

Enraged by the carnage in the Kalinga war, Ashoka yearned for love...

He incorporated Buddhist philosophy into himself in this way

Today, Ashoka and Buddhist philosophy cannot be separated.

Even Napoleon Bonaparte used to take off his armor and immerse himself in love; he was so romantic and dedicated to his beloved.

At this time, no poet or even a man with an innocent heart can be so dedicated.

He will play for some ten minutes.

Which will not satisfy him in any way...

To get this satisfaction, he may be eager to change his partner.

Wherever social bonds are weak, this change occurs within about six months.

But these changes neither change the situation nor his mentality...

That means he fails to love in getting love.

If it becomes an outlet for the wildness of man

So he can love, he can receive, he can give...

This is one reason the female always leans towards the unruly male rather than the socially civilized one.

This is why spoiled guys get devoted girlfriends.

Let the boys get the tag of being socially civilized...

Talking to women

 "ناراض عورت سے بحث نہ کریں آپ اپنا وقت ضائع کر رہے ہیں اور مطمئن عورت سے بحث نہ کریں آپ اس کا وقت ضائع کرتے جا رہے ہیں"

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Stones and snakes of relationship

 The following picture is a great metaphor for any disturbed human relationship, particularly a man and a woman.

Often, a man can't see a snake holding a woman to go up on the cliff, making the man confused as to why she is not coming up, though I am holding her hand. And, many times, a woman can't appreciate the weight of the stone a man carries on his back, thinking why he is not making a full effort to pull me up the cliff.

Think of stones and snakes around you!!

Punishment

 

From Ocean 11 - A woman's perspective

 

Women

“باتوں باتوں میں مجھے خیال آیاکہ مرد کے دل میں عورت کی کشش کی ایک وجہ یہ بھی ہے کہ عورت کے سامنے وہ دل کھول کر جھوٹ بول سکتا ہے اور عورت بھی ہر دم جھوٹ سننے کے لیے تیار رہتی ہے۔ ہوشیار سے ہوشیار عورت بھی بلاآخر اسی مرد کو پسند کرتی ہے جس کے جھوٹ پر وہ اعتبار کر سکے

” لحمے/بلونت سنگھ افسانہ 1949 میں لکھا گیا تھا۔

Man!

I am not a bar or club person. For some reason, I had to tag along with a few cousins to the club two nights ago. Overheard this conversation.

Girl (apparently drunk): "If I agree to go with you, I am sure, as a man you will take me."

Guy: "It would be more manly of me if I don't take advantage of your compromised state."