Zindagi ki Diary - Mi Vida Loca
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Friday, April 19, 2024
Money vs Relationships
Wednesday, April 17, 2024
Monday, April 15, 2024
On Pakistan
Saturday, April 13, 2024
Paranoid
As I work at a quarternary medical center, we get the sickest of sickest patients transferred from outside hospitals. A wrong clinical judgment in that split of a second can kill a patient. I have a very close friend who is a very senior physician and a mentor for me. He reviews cases of bad or unexpected outcomes. The following conversation occurred two days ago.
(phone rang)
"What did I do wrong this time?"
"Nothing! I called to check on your shenanigans outside of work."
"I am now getting paranoid whenever you call."
"I am glad. We need to be paranoid. We deal with human lives. It is a prerequisite. Have a good day."
(Call ended)
Wednesday, April 10, 2024
On Eid
Tuesday, April 09, 2024
Sunday, April 07, 2024
How to play the Game of Life
Cricket is the game of life. Cricket teaches you how to play the game of life. In this regard, my most profound teaching came from legendary Clive Lloyd, who won two first consecutive world cups for the West Indies and groomed many giants of Cricket, including Andy Roberts, Micheal Holding, Malcolm Marshall, and bigger-than-life Sir Alexander Vivian (the King) Richard. He once described his attitude toward playing Cricket in the following words (not exact words, though).
"Once we make the strategy for the match against a particular team, I usually stay in the dressing room, either taking a nap or doing other things. When it's my turn to bat, I walk into the field. First, I look at the weather and the wind to know how the ball may swing. Then, I look at the scoreboard. Knowing this, I play each ball to its merit. This attitude never deceived me."
Approaching every event, issue, action, and problem in life to its merit keeps a person going. It's not worth worrying too much about success or failure.
Friday, April 05, 2024
Be awaz laathi
Kehte hain khuda ki lathi be awaz hai - magar jab us ki samjh aati hai to insaan itni zor se bilbilata hai ke woh laathi be awaz nahi rehti.
* Somebody cheated me with 35 K US$ almost 15 years ago. I moved on as I had no other choice. Recently, I learned that the person lost 70K in the same business for which I was cheated. The business was flooded in extreme rain, and the whole inventory was lost. As Desis do, no flood insurance was purchased. I was sent an apology as a makafate amal. I stayed quiet. Such an apology means nothing anymore.
Wednesday, April 03, 2024
Monday, April 01, 2024
Saturday, March 30, 2024
Thursday, March 28, 2024
Tuesday, March 26, 2024
Nostalgic shyr
Sunday, March 24, 2024
Friday, March 22, 2024
Wednesday, March 20, 2024
Monday, March 18, 2024
Mirza Ghalib on Fasting
مرزا غالب کے ایک خط سے اقتباس
Saturday, March 16, 2024
Returning car
I was always told that if you borrow a car from someone, the right etiquette is to always return it with a full tank.
Yesterday, somebody went a step further, and added: "If you borrow a car for more than two days, always return it with a full tank and a carwash."
Thursday, March 14, 2024
Community
A female colleague made an interesting comment interestingly about the desi community (at least here in the USA). It was about another female colleague desperate to get her daughter married on the pretext that "umar nikalti ja rahi hai, log kiya kahain gey."
I don't agree completely, but it makes sense on many levels, at least for women in the community.
Yeah community!… gelee lakrioun ki tarahn hootay hein. Qarib aou to koi garmi nahi, aur dour sey sulagta hua dhuwan!
Tuesday, March 12, 2024
Kask
Zindagi ke kai sawal aese hote hain, kai kasak aesi hoti hain -
barson lag jaate hain
- unka jawab milne main
- woh kasak, woh khalish mitne main
~ Shayed yahi bohat hai ke maut se pehle saare hisab saaf ho jaain