Thursday, January 22, 2026

An alternate view on health and wealth

(A text from a friend: though not entirely agree, but makes sense up to a certain level)

I believe that the old saying "health is wealth" exists mainly to keep the less fortunate content with their circumstances. I argue the opposite, that wealth is health. With wealth comes the means to live a longer, more fulfilling life, which is why people in North America, Europe, Japan, Denmark, and Australia enjoy greater longevity and well-being.

Tuesday, January 20, 2026

An African Proverb

 If you see a rat dancing in front of a cat, know that there's a hole nearby.

African proverb

Sunday, January 18, 2026

Darde Dil

“عبادت فرشتہ تو بنا سکتی ہے، لیکن انسان نہیں بنا سکتی۔انسان تو درد سے بنتا ہے

”۔واصف علی واصف 

Friday, January 16, 2026

Dog's love

 Having a dog as a pet has been universal among humans for ages. This is probably due to the unconditional love dogs show.

Last week, one of my colleagues' dogs died. Someone offered an interesting console.

"It is said that 7 years of a human life is equivalent to one year of a dog's life. This is because dogs have 7 times as much love in their hearts as humans. Humans need seven times as many dogs as a pet to understand one dog's love! If your dog has died, let's get another dog so you continue to appreciate the beauty of love; dogs are trying to teach us."

Wednesday, January 14, 2026

One marker of raising good kids

 I think this is an interesting perspective on raising good children, particularly in the Western world.

"If your child calls, texts, or reaches out to his grandparents - without your advice - to convey happy birthday or congratulations or any other sentiments - be assured you have raised a good kid."

Monday, January 12, 2026

One Sane Advice

اچھی سگریٹ پیئں، خاموشی کو اپنائیں، مولویوں کے باتوں میں نہ آئیں۔ اچھا سا میوزک سنئیے، لوگوں کو سنجیدگی سے نہ لیں،

 اپنے جذبات کو بڑھا چڑھا کر پیش نہ کریں، پرسکون رہیں۔

اگر کسی کا کوا سفید ہے تو اسے سفید ہی رہنے دیں کالا ثابت کرنے کی کوشش نہ کریں، اگر کوئی یہ تسلیم کرچکا ھے کہ ہاتھی درخت پر بیٹھا ہے تو اس کے ہاتھی کو نیچے اتارنے میں اپنا وقت، جذبات اور اپنے الفاظ ضائع نہ کریں۔
اپنی مرضی کے خلاف کسی کو خوش نہ کریں، آپ کی ایک ہی زندگی ہے جو بہت قیمتی ہے اسے سستے لوگوں کے لیے ضائع نہ کریں۔

اپنے آپ کو خوش رکھیں، اپنا خیال رکھیں، آپ خود کے لیے بہت ضروری ہیں، اپنے آپ کے لیے خود کو بہت اہم رکھیں، اپنی پہلی ترجیح اپنا آپ رکھیں اور آزادانہ زندگی گزاریں۔ 

Saturday, January 10, 2026

A beautiful Shyr


مجھے رکھ گرفت فریب میں

تیرا جھوٹ بھی مجھے راس ہے


Thursday, January 08, 2026

'Disappointing’ those closest to us

Charlie Sheen is getting candid about the turning point that led to his sobriety and the moment he knew he had to change. The actor, once known for his heavy drug and alcohol use, has been sober nearly eight years. After years of addiction and public turmoil, Sheen said he got sober after realizing the impact his lifestyle was having on both his health and those around him. 

In recent years, he’s spoken about the shame he associates with those years of his life and about turning his life around since getting sober in 2017. A large part of that, he said, was rebuilding relationships with those closest to him. 

 "I didn’t feel that I was available to the people that count on me the most and available in a way that they came to rely on, but then had to make adjustments based on my choices," he said.


Full Link:

https://www.foxnews.com/media/charlie-sheen-gets-brutally-honest-about-moment-he-got-sober-after-disappointing-those-closest-him 

Sunday, January 04, 2026

I agree on that..

Many may not agree, but usually, once in a relationship, if there is a breakup, it is wise to move on..

 


 

Monday, December 29, 2025

Early to rise!

All my life, I have found this so true.  

Early to bed, Early to rise. 
Makes man healthy, wealthy, and wise

 


Sunday, December 21, 2025

Mo!

 Mo! has been my African-American friend for a long time.

One day, I asked Mo! - What a kind of nick is that?

He laughed and explained:

 "I am a Christian. After 9/11, I saw many of my muslim friends going through discrimination, teasing, and disrespectful attitudes from society. One day, at a coffee counter, I had a Muslim man waiting for his coffee. When his name was called Mohammad, there were many stares at him. He, as well as everyone, sensed it. Since that day, I changed my nickname from John to Mo! Every time I go somewhere, and they ask my name, I say, "Mo!" Followed by a statement, 'Mo for Mohammad.' I am still very Christian. Initially, I did this to support my muslim friends, but over time, I have really come to like my name. I feel this name soothes me. It has music in it. I just love it!

Friday, December 19, 2025

A kind of good prayer

 Jab hum chote the to har chutti wale din hamare ghar ya to koi mamu ya taya aa jate. Raat ke khane ke baad der tak batain hoti. Tab hamari dadi mehmano se kehtin:

"Bus ab sab tum khairyat se apne apne ghar paunch jao - aur subah apne apne kaam pe hazir ho jao."

Hum sab dadi ka mazq uRate ke - lo dadi sab mehmanoN ko bhaga rahi hain.

Ab sab sochta hun ke ye kitni achhi dua thi. 

Jab tak insaan ke paas aik pursakoon ghar, aur rozgaar ki naimat hai - zindagi main aur kiya chahiye?

Wednesday, December 17, 2025

Types of women's relationship

 Women get into relationships for only three reasons

1. Emotional - if you get connected to her via kissing her mind

2. Carnal - if she just gets attracted to you at a pure lust level, a rare (but not so rare) entity

3. Transactional - If she gets something in return, mostly financial security or prestige


Monday, December 15, 2025

Success

 Success is never owned, it's rented & rent is due every day.

Saturday, December 13, 2025

Thousands clothes and thousands stitches

ہزار جامہ دری صد ہزار بخیہ گری تمام شورش و تمکیں نثار بے خبری

 

- Thousands clothes to wear and thousands stitches - all endeavours and hard work can be given up for ignorance (from it)


A Persian saying to outline the concept of Sufism that all life's challenges can be dealt with by just changing one's mindset by ignoring them.