'History' ki kitabon main jo qisse bayan kiye jaate hain unka maqsad sirf kahani nahi hota bulke sabaq sikhna maqsood hota hai.
Agar aap ne Hazrat Yousuf (Prophet Joseph) ki zindagi ke halat parhe hon to aap jaante honge ke Allah ne unko bari khubsurti di thi.
"Yusuf was a handsome and an attractive, charming and irresistible young man. He was held in high esteem even in the house of his master. As the time passed the lady of the house fell in love with him..... One day in the absence of her husband she approached him. Yusuf refrained from doing evil but she chased him. She grabbed hard at the back of his shirt and it was torn apart. Just at that time the master appeared on the scene. He saw what was going on, He flew into a rage. The master's wife was embarrassed beyond all limits. She cried out and levelled false accusations against Yusuf. Yusuf clarified his position with the moral support of one of the maid-servants who bore witness by saying: Look at the shirt. If it is torn at the back, the Yusuf will be quite innocent. He should not be blamed. In case it is rent from the front the accused will be one of the liars. The master became convinced of the innocence of Yusuf. He appealed to him to keep the matter in secret. Moreover he admonished his wife to beg pardon of Yusuf".
Is kahani se main ne 7 sabaq sikhe
1. If God has made you physically attractive, it does not mean you have license to seduce other gender but you should remain humble like yousuf was.
2. Its not only man but woman can also sexually charge man.
3. All crying women can't be right !
4. If you hear charges levelled from your loved one against someone - you shouldn't believe it instantly, just because he or she is your 'manzoor-e-nazar'.
5. If you know the truth, speak out - it may save someone's dignity and even life (like other maid-servant did).
6. If you find out that your spouse has cheated you under flash of lust, its more graceful to keep it secret.
7. If you end-up putting "tauhmat" on someone under rage, it does not hurt to apologize.
7 comments:
hmm...So why ppl delete their posts?
hahahahaha !!
Later I thought, its a common thing ppl. get on fwded emails so just took it off....
But felt good that somebody noticed it.
hmm...I guess many bodies noticed it but only one body had nothing better to do than to actually ask you why.
So the proper response from your side should have been something like, 'Get a life!' ;)
(this last smiley is just precautionary measure, since you normally take my comments to heart)
get a life !!
Quite interesting!!!! U r not clear what u actually want to say or may be need to rephrase few lessons u learnt because they seems messed up like first one where a woman seduced while the man declined by being humble so in first lesson what u learnt that seduction is bad or being humble is good because according to the case study Yousaf was attractive and he was not seducing at all.
one CORRECTION for your record it is not in books of history it is in Quran which is not a history book can u refer to any history book which describes it with authenticity.
lesson 4 and 7 are not worded properly unable to deliver the desired message while number 6 can you please refer to islamic teachings for that how many men can face it and keep it secret is this message directed to men because being in the moment endup in "lust" keeping it secret is the solution or self desception????
How can someone write so carelessly!!!
what ever...
Amazing reply what ever.... least expected atleast issues related to history nd facts.
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