Pehle zamane main jub lurki bihai jaati thi to use ghar wale do batain kehte the (filmoN main bhi ye jumle bohat sune).
Aik to ye ke: "Ab susral se tumhari laash hi nikalni chahiye"! (wow)
Dusri ye ke: "Mehka aur susral 2 band mutthioN ki tarah hai - dono alag hi rahain to behtar hai"
Aur main sochta tha kiya bakwas hai!
Lekin ab lagta hai buzurg itne galat bhi nahi the. Pehli baat ye ke aesa nahi tha ke unhe apni beti se muhabbat nahi hoti thi magar 'message' ye tha ke susral main 'issues' hote hain magar har baat pe ruth ke mehke aa jaana aqalmandi nahi. Dusri baat ye thi ke mehke aake susral ki burai kerna bhi koi achhi baat nahi.
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Yeah
awr buht say pehloo bhi oain kisi awr waqt likhoonga inshallh
baat buhut khari oy awr nihayat zroori hay
kaash aajkal ki laRkiaN as baat ko samjh skain magar yeh samajh unforunately buhut late aati hay
ghar ki aabadi awr barbaadi ka inhisaar aisi hi naseetaown peh hay
Welcome back uncle!
I saw yr quote at urdu blog and loved it!
Sir, aapne jo naseehaten di bilkul theek di hai lekin kamoshi zaruri hai per itni zaruri bhi nahi her ladki ko acche sasural wale mile yeh mumkin nahi ..ho sakta hai ki uski kamoshi ko woh uski kamzori bana le aur ladki ager apne dil ka haal apne mehke walon se nahi kahegi to kisse kahegi...isko aap burai nahi keh sakte aapne apni pehli naseehat mein yeh to samjha diya ki sasural hi ladki ka asli gher hai lekin aap yeh bhi dekhe sir k sasurwale hamesha ladki ke mehke walon ki burai hamesha isi tarah karte hai hai 'tere gher walon ne yeh kiya...woh kiya bla bla ab ladki kisko apna gher maane...yeh mujhe bataye aap
Amreen,
Tumhari baat galat nahi. Ladki pe bari bhari zimedari (aur woh bhi itni young age main) ye hoti hai ke kahan tuk bardasht kare? Kahan line darw kare ke enough is enough?
I am not endorsing abuse in anyway. The whole point of post is to highlight the fact that girl should not let her 'mehka' too involve in susral and vice versa. These should run like 2 parallel friendly lakes. Beyond that each human has right to move on if any abuse is there. Marriage is a social contract - not a divine melt!
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