Wednesday, April 30, 2025

Childhood Memory

‏ابھی ڈسپوزیبل سرنج نہیں آئی تھیں تو محلے کے ڈاکٹر صاحب کیتلی کے کھولتے پانی میں ڈوبی سوئی کو چمٹی سے نکال کر اس ٹیکے پر لگاتے اور دوائی بھر کے تھوڑا سا ایک نکڑ کی طرف کر کے دو قطرے نکالتے اور کہتے 
" کاکا کچھ نہیں ہوتا سیدھا ہو جا "

شائد آپ بھی شاھد ہوں اس زمانے کے


 


 

Thursday, April 24, 2025

Key to spousal relationship

 "What do you think, what you need as the key for spousal relationship?"

"Respect or love?"

"Those may be right answers at lower level, but what makes a relationship really meaningful and successful is to hold difficult conversation when situation arise with kids, values, relatives, in-laws, finances, porn, attention, nagging, perceived cheating and others."

Friday, April 18, 2025

*G P S, STORY*

(Names have been blocked out for the privacy)

Our dear friend SR, who lives just two blocks from us, originally hails from Lyallpur, a city renowned for its textile industry in Pakistan. SR comes from a prominent family deeply rooted in the textile business, much like Dr. NS family. SR has made a name in the industry, even in the USA.


SR visited his primary care physician a few months ago for a routine checkup. The results revealed that his hemoglobin A1C (Hgb A1C) level was elevated at 6.8, indicating prediabetes—a warning sign that caught his attention. His doctor delivered a straightforward ultimatum: either shape up, lose weight, and adopt healthier habits, or face the prospect of starting medication to manage his condition.

SR embarked on a business trip to Pakistan shortly after this appointment to oversee his textile operations. While there, he had an enlightening conversation with one of his factory managers, affectionately known as Chacha. Chacha A**** offered unconventional yet practical advice as they discussed food and health. “Sahib,” he said confidently, “just follow the GPS, and you’ll shed the weight in no time.” Puzzled, SR inquired, “What’s GPS?” With a chuckle, Chacha explained that it wasn’t a navigation tool but a simple dietary principle: avoid Grains, Potatoes, and Sugar—the “GPS” of unhealthy eating. He assured that sticking to this approach would yield results.

Intrigued by the idea's simplicity, SR decided to try it. Upon returning to Chicago, he committed to the GPS plan, cutting out grains like bread and rice, starchy potatoes, and sugary treats from his diet. The results were nothing short of remarkable. In just 10 weeks, he dropped an impressive 21 pounds. Encouraged by his progress, he set a goal to lose 33 pounds, steadily working toward it by faithfully adhering to the GPS method.

SR’s transformation left me in awe. It’s incredible how a straightforward shift in diet—avoiding processed carbs and sugars—can not only help shed unwanted weight but also potentially prevent chronic conditions like diabetes. It’s a powerful reminder that small, intentional changes can yield life-changing outcomes, steering us away from the pitfalls of junk food and sedentary habits.

I encourage you all to consider trying the GPS approach for yourselves. Share your experiences—whether a pound lost, newfound energy, or a healthier outlook—I’d love to hear your stories! 

 *Here’s to health, discipline, and the wisdom of Chacha A*****!*

Tuesday, April 15, 2025

Which fight to pick

 I have learned in life that one of the biggest skill you need in life to learn which fights to pick and which fights to let go. You can't fight all battles. Choose wisely.

Thursday, April 10, 2025

Editing

Over the years, I learned that being simple and having few words are much more impactful...Verbosity is a curse.



 

Sunday, April 06, 2025

Indus Valley and Mohenjo-Daro recreated

How the Indus Valley and Mohenjo-Daro looked in history, watch in this short video made by AI...


 

Thursday, April 03, 2025

Taste of Death

 (A text from a friend)

As you know, I am not a very religious person, and as usual I got the news of death of someone on one of my WhatsApp group. Someone commented with the Quranic ayat:


And for few days I kept thinking, why the word "Zaiqa"? Is death sweet or has a specific taste? or does it metaphorically mean that: Death is a good thing for every human?

Don't know my friend. I am crazy. Bewajah baton pe aen waen gor karain..