Thursday, May 17, 2007

On "Manipulative Woman"

Agar aap log ye blog parhte rahe hain to shayed aap logon ko yaad ho ke main ne apne cousin aur dost Aga ki kahani likhi thi....To jub main Aga se milne ab ki baar florida gaya to Aga ne kaha: "Aaj ki sham yaadgar banai jaaye gi. Pehle 'dirty martini' ke saath steak khain ge, phir film dekhain ge, us ke baad night club main sharab-o-shabab hoga aur phir ghar aake hukke, pakistani chai aur lata ji ke gaane sunte huwe raat der tak khub gup-shap lage gi"....

Aga ki jahan main ne bohut si batain likhi thi, us main aik baat reh gai thi ke apni mohabbat main nakami ke baad 'as a reaction' woh bohut bara playboy bun gaya (jo adat ab qadre dafa ho chuki hai). America main basne waali shayed hi koi qaumiat ki aesi lurki hogi, jis ka Aga ko tajarba na raha ho. Main ne Aga se poocha: "Tumhe duniya ki hur mazhab, nasal aur qaum ki lurki ka tajarba hai. Tumhe sab se ziyada kaunsi larki handle kerna mushkil lagi ya kaunsi larki aaj bhi tumhe dhoka de sakti hai - smart, khubsurat, intellectual, academic, professional, hijabi, gheralu, desi, hispanic, white, kaali, gori, hindu, chapti, angry, shy, bold ya koi aur ? "

Aga ne apni 'dirty martini' se aik bara sip liya, kuch der sochta raha aur phir bola - "Aurat pe habit, habitat, rang, nasal, mazhab aur taalim ka sirf rang choona hota hai. At the bottom, all women are same. At the end, main ne har aurat ko aik jesa hi paaya magar aaj bhi aesi aurat se durta hun jo 'cunning aur deceiving' ho. Insaan har tarah ki aurat ko handle ker sakta hai magar agar aurat makkari pe utar aaye to mard ka sara ilm aur tajarba bhi uske aage par nahi maar sakta" !

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Aapke agha dost sahi nahi sochte! shayad woh dirty martinis ne dimagh thanda kar diya hoga :p. (I had a pina colada..sans the sharab sooo yummm) First off jub insaan itnayy saray rishte kar baithay hai aur torta hai usko unki qadr nahi rehti..he does not go into them with the right intentions and his observations cannot be accurate coming out of them. Since you refer to him as a past playboy I expect it was him that broke the many hearts to begin with.

Being a girl meself (blahh finee woman cheee aurat :p) I say the worsttttt of us is the one who is extra sweet and extra hurtful. If someone goes into a relation with the thought of gaining something where the first thought is not the relation itself or the bond but something else...then that person shall never truly care for you and will be the most vicious if need be when tearing away from it. Yeh tou bus meray two chawani's thian.

mystic-soul said...

I agree with you and the whole point of the post was last line ke..... " Insaan har tarah ki aurat ko handle ker sakta hai magar agar aurat makkari pe utar aaye to mard ka sara ilm aur tajarba bhi uske aage par nahi maar sakta" !

And this is evenly true if it happens due to person's own faults and I am sure he was responsible to gain that reaction by himself.

Anonymous said...

What about ur friend agha????
what is he doing???????
insan ko wohi milta ha jo woh karta hai

Anonymous said...

jesi kerni wesi bharni.....

As I said in previous comment: "I am sure he was responsible to gain that reaction by himself"....