Friday, July 03, 2009

Working on Marriage

(The following post is controversial, and you have all right to disagree)

There is no such thing as "working on marriage." Marriages either work or don't work. But working on marriage is the rationalization of the fact that you are in a noncompatible relationship. There may be another thing - acceptance of your given circumstances. But no, Sir! Marriage doesn't get better by working on it! - it just survives.

Personalities are like blood groups -
if they don't match, they just don't match.

2 comments:

Amreen khan said...

Asslamualekum sir, meine aapke kafi blogs read kiye sir, aapki tareef karna to suraj ko diya dikhana jaise haiiii sir aap bahut accha aur bahut deep sochte haii sir, i am from india mein bhi blogs likhna chahti hoo aur thode bahut likhe bhi hai lekin mein aap se likhna chahti hoo
amreenchirag990.rediffiland.com/ sir yeh mera blogs ka address haiii , Allah aapko bahut kaamyabi de. Allah hafiz

mystic said...

Dear Amreen,

I read your posts and I think you have pretty good urdu vocabulary and style. There are 3 important things in developing good writing scale

1. To write everyday. Its like yoga or any other skill - need practice everyday.

2. Read back your writings from past frequently. It will tell you your mistakes.

3. Read as much as you can. Others opinion, style, emotions and expressions from others will help you to develop depth and to see things in diffent perspective.

Thanks for visiting and keep writing and disagree frequently. It helps !!