"It's no good trying to get rid of your own aloneness. You've got to stick to it all your life. Only at times, at times, the gap will be filled in. At times! But you have to wait for the times. Accept your own aloneness and stick to it, all your life. And then accept the times when the gap is filled in, when they come. But they've got to come. You can't force them."
Lady Chatterley's Lover by D. H. Lawrence*
*D.H. Lawrence died young at age of 45 but left deep imprints on English literature, though many of his ideas were inhumane and disgusting. He has a rare distinction of his novel (Lady Chatterley's Lover) going through court trial for publication after 30 years of his death! Not only his life was full of controversies but even his death was a story. Five years after his death, his body was exhumed, cremated and ashes were brought from Europe to America for burial at his favorite ranch and one time home in New Mexico.