Faheem bhai (here) se koi das baras baad aik dam se mulaqat hui. Allah jaane kab woh dubai se america aaye, pata hi na chala. Bus 4/5 baras pehle kisi ne bataya tha ke un ke maazoor bete ka intaqal ho gaya hai.
Yun to Faheem bhai pehle hi bohat badal gaye the, magar ab ki baar aesa lage jese 10 baras main 100 baras ka safar te kiya hai. Burhape ki dehleez pe the. Apni umar se bohat ziyada zaeef dikhaii dete the
Main ne kaha: "Faheeb bhai, aap kitne badal gaye hain?" (shayed woh mera matlab samjh gaye)
UnhoN ne jawab diya: "Jab bete ko insaan apne haatoN se qabar main utare, aur saamne jawan beti ka bojh ho - to insaan aap hi buRha ho jaata hai".
Yun to Faheem bhai pehle hi bohat badal gaye the, magar ab ki baar aesa lage jese 10 baras main 100 baras ka safar te kiya hai. Burhape ki dehleez pe the. Apni umar se bohat ziyada zaeef dikhaii dete the
Main ne kaha: "Faheeb bhai, aap kitne badal gaye hain?" (shayed woh mera matlab samjh gaye)
UnhoN ne jawab diya: "Jab bete ko insaan apne haatoN se qabar main utare, aur saamne jawan beti ka bojh ho - to insaan aap hi buRha ho jaata hai".
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Duniya may sab se bad dard wo hai Aulaad ke janne kaa.I have see the such people.
When the young bury the old, time heals the pain and sorrow. But when the process is reversed, the sorrow remains forever.
May Allaha soften our heart so that we can feel the pain of others...Ameen
Death of a child is a devastating event but life and death is not in our hands ..Allah unko sabr dey......
But I feel very strongly about this pseudo beychargi .... Jawan beti ko bhojh na samjhain tou shaid buhat saray Faheem bhai waqt say pehlay burhay na ho ...
I see it this way "Beti Allah ki rehmat hai aur beta Naimat " ...Naimat chhen jaye tou ro lain magar phir hasil ho sakti hai aur buhat si naimtain Allah humain ata karta rehta hai aik k baad aik ....Uski Rehmat chali gaii tou zindagee kis kam ki ??
But that's how our society views it ... beti ..aik bojh , aik burden jis say chutkara panay mein he aafiat hai ! Jaisi beti na choot ki bemari ho ~
Khuda janay hum logon ki soch kab badlay gee..:(
sorry if I offended anyone with my thoughts ..my apologies in advance !
edit : beti na ho choot ki bemari ho ..wasn't able to edit the comment sorry !
No "Books and stilettos" I am not hurt but I do wish to make comments which I have written in my Urdu Blog
I have not learned how to give a click help but see
"saugoree bsc' and google may be able to help
Some day I will ask my children (or grand children) to help me update my abilities
I wholeheartedly agree with B&S.
Books n Stilettos,, and Mehnaz :: This blog is all about how people live, feel, experience and perceive life. We are entitled for our opinions. But, this blog is more of a portal or free wall of life as it occurs in different colors.
Was never offended, will not be offended with any comment.
Dear Mystic soul:) I think that is why we like your blog; I have immense respect for all of you here and especially for you since WE All CAN AGree to Disagree here!
I personally have learnt a lot about life and living, through all the rich perspectives shared here! Merci beaucoup!
Bsc I have a deep respect for you ...I read your comment on urdu blog about baityan bojh kab mehsoos hoti Hain .... like I said below I have daughters and am probably not at that stage where I am worried about their shadi beyah .....but my question is Allah gave them to us kia mujhay Apnay Allah pay yaqeen nahi kah wo meri betyon k liye acha bandobast karay ga ..kiun kah Uska ye bhi Kahna hai kah wo tum say tumharay gumaan k mutabiq mamla karey ga ..Jab hum yeh kahtay hain her Kam Allah k hukam say hota tou phir pareshani ki wajha mujhay Allah ki zaat pay yaqeen na hona nazar ati hai . I maybe very wrong but mujhay sirf itna pata hai jo beti deyta hai wo uska nasib , rizq sath likh k bhaijta hai meri lakh koshish k bawajud mein kisi ko aik dana bhi ziyada ya kam nahi dey paoon agar wo uskay nasib mein nahi likha ......Allah sab betyon k nasib achay karay aur unkay k parents k liye Asaaniyan farmaye Ameen !
I posted a long reply for you mystic but realized it never appeared here oh well ! I come to this blog because I love it and mehnaz has said it all so well above ...thank you all ! Peace ~
Books,, I see both of your comments here.also, I didn't get notification on any other comment. Was there any?
No there was another comment that never appeared that's why I wrote two lines again ...probably I messed up and it got deleted before I even posted it.. Its all good :)
B and S
I am glad you saw my blog
All what you say is true
Baitian apni qismat sath layker aati hain I have so many experiences and what you say I would gladly agree, yes but the worry is socially connected not for aulaad. Just ask a couple who have no child what it would mean to have a baitee. (very briefly) One such couple after several years of marriage get some fertility treatment and result- one baitee - she got complications in neonatal period brain surgery etc. survived- poor development marked physical problems Parents love for her makes them spend everything for her betterment That love is very special gift of Allha SWT much more than ordinary parents They do not worry about her future except for her own progress
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