Ye un dinon ki baat hai jub main medical school ke shayed 3rd ya 4th year main tha. Hum ne Sindhi Medicos Association ke saath tharparkar, Sindh ke ilaqe main medical camp lagaya tha. Aik roz hamare camp main 10/11 aurton ka aik group aaya - kisi ko khansi thi to kisi ko skin ka koi infection. Us group main 60/65 baras ki amma bhi thi. Us ka chehra aaj bhi mujhe hu-bahu yaad hai. Balon main safedi thi. Mere saath aik sindhi volunteer mujhe 'translation' main help ker raha tha. Neeche likhi saari guftago sindhi main hui magar main urdu ka sahara le raha hun:
" amma ! kupre aur chehre se na to tu 'bheel' lagti hai aur na 'kholi' bulke tum to tharparkar ki hi nahi lagti ho?" (Bheels and kholis are 2 different kind of cultural inhabitants there)
"Main to udhar ooper khairpur se bhi aage aik goth (village) se aai hun"
"Khairpur se ho to yahan Chahro main kiya ker rahi ho, aur aage kahan ja rahi ho"
"Aage 'kutch' tak jaana hai"
"Udhar shehra (desert) main kiya dhundne ja rahi ho?"
"munjho ghar-walo utte aa (mera ghar wala udhar hai), uke talpur ja manhu uthai wiya hain, (use talpur ke aadmi utha ke le gaye hain)"
"Cha thio (what happen) ?"
Baat ye thi ke - us amma ke shohar ne kisi talpur se paisa qarz liya tha, wapas na ker saka to woh use utha ke kahin 'kutch' main le gaye the. Suna hai, wahan unhe india ke ilaqe se hone wali smuggling main begaar ke tor pe istamaal kerte the. Ab ye burhi amma use dhundne us taraf ja rahi thi.
Mere saath ke aadmi ne kaha: "teri aik aurat ki kaun sunega. Tere ghar-wale ke saath tujhe bhi rakh lain ge ya tujhe zabardasti wapas bhej dain ge... Phir chakkar kate gi. ...Meri maan to wapas khairpur chali ja. Khud hi kuch dinon main tere ghar wale ko talpur wapas bhej dain ge. Woh aese hi darate hain. Ja wapas chali ja"
Us aurat ka jawab aaj bhi mujhe yaad hai: " Je ho te ho per munjha gharwale te ie itminan to hundo ke ma unh laaye aai hui (jo ho so ho, per mere ghar waale ko ye to itminan ho ga ke main peeche se dhundhne aai thi)".
Sochta hun, insaani rishte sirf 'trust' pe palte hain aur kabhi kabhi us trust ko nibhana kitna mushkil ho jaata hai.
Gaun ki woh aurat, jise hum anparh, jaahil aur ganwar kehte hain mujhe saari zindagi rishte nibhane ka sabaq sikha gai.
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rishte nibhana bila shuba mushkil kaam hai. bus Allah sub rishtre nibhane ka aise saleeqa de k rishte bhoujh na mehsoos hone lagein.
I think, its the most important virtue in life
Un Meeron Or Peeron ne hamare Sindhi qoom ko tabah kaya ha warna SHAH LATAIF A R ka pora Resalo un he Restoon se bahra para ha wo Noore ho Sasi ho Marve Ho As me na koye Hundo ha Na koye Muslam faqat wo sub Sindhi han sabh se Phele Hum Insan han Pher Sindhi Han pher Kuch or
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