Alas!

Alas!! Human life goes through 3 phases.

"I will do this"
"I have time to do this"
"Why I didn't do this"

Spiritual families

He was different. Tall with a Texan accent and hair with a pony !! He said to me: "All over, there are 40 kinds of people. You will be surprised to find two exact personalities, even look alike, born on two different continents. Like botanical and zoological families, we humans have our own spiritual families or classes" !!!

Decisions

Decisions in life are like fruits on the branches (events) of the tree (life). Once ripe! They will quietly fall into your heart!! (and at that moment, your heart will know what to do)!

bachpun ke dost

Zindagi main aksar,
tanhaii main aakar
woh dost
hum se batain kerte hain,
jo zindagi ki bhul-bhulaion main
hum se kahin kho gaye hain

naik amal

Achhe kaam pe kharch kiye huwe paise, kahin na kahin insaan ki hifazat zaroor kerte hain !!

swimming

Tum ne mullah nasiruddin ki woh hiqayat to suni hogi ke, aik shaks ne teraki (swimming) ke mozun per kai kitabain parhi magar jub terne gaya to doob gaya!!

vanvaas

Hur koi zindagi main aik 'van-vaas' kaatta hai. Main ne bhi kata hai, tum bhi kato ge. Meri dua hai, tumhara 'van-vaas' mukhtasar ho.

Qudrat ka mazaq

Ye bhi kismat ki aik azeem sitam-zarifi hai, jeese kehte hain - chirag tale andhera!! Ye koi pehli baar to nahi huwa. Hamesha qudrat aese mazaq kerti rehti hai ya shayed koi sabq dena chahti hai.

Us aurat ne teen bete jawan kiye. TeenoN ko doctor banaya aur teenoN 'anesthesiologists', jin ka kaam hi "protection of airway" hota hai. Magar un ki ma aaj sirf is liye qabr main leti hai ke jub paramedics ghar aaye to "they were unable to insert endo-tracheal tube" !!

Black hole (aik nazam)

Black hole

Kiya jo waaqiya mujh pe nahi guzra
main us qisse ka bhi hissa hun
Kiya judaai ka jo lamha mujh pe nahi beeta
main us ghari ka bhi hissa hun

aik wqat mere ander rehta hai
zaman-o-makan se pare
jo saalim mukammal hai
maazi ki sadion se aTa aur
mustaqbil ki goonj se bhara
main kaainat ke us nuqte,
us 'black hole' ka saaniha hun

jo wehdat ki kasrat se pehlne wali
‘bang’ ka hissa hai
meri ruh us dhamake ki tawani
se paida hui hai
aur apne ander us 'black hole' ki
baazghast liye huwe hai
sara dukh simte huwe hai

kabhi kabhi
main aansu-on se ter
apni neend se bedaar ho ker
un waaiqat ko dekhta hun

meri ruh - meri tawani
apne black hole ke us markaz ko
us aik nuqte ko,
apni wehdat ke waapsi ke us raste ko
dhundhne main sadion se sargardan hai

Aur main ruhon ke is rewar main
hur ruh ka hissa hun!

House and apartment

If you can afford, raise your kids in house - not in apartment. Psychologically, its more secure and provides self identity. Beside privacy, Jagah bari ho to dimag bhi khule rehte hain

na-khushi

Na-khush insaan Aadmi aakhirkaar apnon ko hi nuqsaan paunchata hai.

loud thoughts

Trust me woman hear your thoughts.

Why me?

Arthur Ashe, the legendary Wimbledon player was dying of AIDS which he got due to infected blood he received during a heart surgery in 1983. From world over, he received letters from his fans, one of which conveyed: "Why does GOD have to select you for such a bad disease"?

To this Arthur Ashe replied: The world over -- 5o million children start playing tennis, 1 million learn to play tennis, half million learn professional tennis, 50,000 come to the circuit, 5000 reach the grand slam, 50 reach Wimbledon, 4 to semi final, 2 to the finals, When I was holding a cup I never asked GOD "Why me?". And today in pain I should not be asking GOD "Why me?"

His another famous quote: "From what we get, we can make a living; what we give, however, makes a life."

Store room

Jub main aur meri biwi, Harrison Ford aur Michelle Pfeiffer ki film "what lies beneath" dekh ker theatre se bahir aaye to main ne apni biwi se kaha "Kiya bakwas hai!"

Us ke kuch dinoN baad ki baat hai...hamare makan main aik store room tha jo bawarchi khane ke bilkul peeche the. Bijli bachane ke chakkar main thekedar ne beech ki deewar main jaga bana ke bijli ka bulb yun laga diya tha ke aik hi bulb se bawarchi khana aur store room dono roshan rehte.

Main kisi kaam se store room main gaya to mujhe mehsoos huwa ke wahan koi hai. Pehle to main ne socha mera wahma ya dur hai magar jub cheezain khud b khud hilne lagi aur khud mujhe jhanjhore jaane laga to main ne us ger maraei makhluq se kaha ke agar mujh se baat kerna chahte ho ya meri madad chahte ho to batao magar woh yunhi mastian kerta raha. Main ne kaha, agar koi insaani ruh ho aur yahan phans gaye ho to batao shahyed main tumhare kaam aa sakun magar ab us ne zor se bijli ka heater shuru ker diya. Mujhe gussa aa gaya, main ne kaha: "Dekho ! tum jo koi bhi ho, hum insaanon ko tum per foqiat haasil hai. Sirf masti theek nahi. Agar yahan se nikalna nahi chahte ho to pare raho aur ye saari mastiaan band karo".

Meri baat sun ker sub kuch khamosh ho gaya aur ab store room main kuch nahi hota. Shahyed woh wahin rehta tha aur rehna chahta tha. Magar ab sochta hun ke us ne mere saath ye harkat kiun ki ?. Ye batane ke liye ke jo kuch us film main dikhaya gaya, sub bakwas nahi tha?. To kiya woh store room main rehne ke saath saath hamare saath ghuma phira bhi kerta tha?

PROVERBS

PROVERBS - From the World Over


A good husband is healthy and absent.
Japanese Proverb


A hedge between keeps friendship green.
French Proverb


A hungry man is an angry man.
English Proverb


A man does not seek his luck, luck seeks its man.
Turkish Proverb


A new broom sweeps clean, but the old brush knows all the corners.
Irish Proverb


A penny saved is a penny gained.
Scottish Proverb


A rumor goes in one ear and out many mouths.
Chinese proverb


A silent mouth is melodious.
Irish Proverb


A son is a son till he gets him a wife,
But a daughter's a daughter the rest of your life.
Proverb of Unknown Origin


A thief believes everybody steals.
Proverb of Unknown Origin

Qs

Life is not a school. Don't ask too many questions. 
It will be taken as a sign of weakness!

Mind and person

A Young student approached the famous French scientist and philosopher, Blaise Pascal, and declared, " If I had your brains, I would be a better person."

Pondering the depth of that statement, Pascal paused momentarily before replying, " Be a better person, and you will have my brains."

Maazur

Aur us poori raat woh karwatain badalta raha jub use bataya gaya, us ke haan maazur (handicap) bachha paida huwa hai. Us bachhe ka khayal hai ke duniya main sub achhe hote hain, koi bura nahi hota. Zindagi sirf haseen hai aur khel khud aur khilonon ka naam hai. Jis cheez ki tamanna karo mil jaati hai. Sub dost hain. Insaanon ke beech koi deewar nahi hoti. Koi ajnabi nahi. Hur ghar sub ka ghar hai..... Peechle saal haloween pe jub logon ne bhoot aur churailon ka roop dhara to unhe dekh ke us pe mirgi ka dora par gaya ke ye mukhlooqain insaanon ke beech kese aa gain?

Kiya achha hota us ka haan bhi aik normal bachha paida hota, jo waqt ke saath zindagi ke daao pej sikh pata. Kamingi, zor zabardati, keena parwari aur matlabi hone ke gun paata.

Ab zindagi ki aakhri saans tak is bojh ko utha utha ke saath phiro.

dar

Aur jub us ne apni kamzor awaz main kaha: "you will come back, right?" to us ki awaz ke dar, khuf aur us main chupi sachhai ne mujhe dehla ker rukh diya. Main zindagi main kubhi itna nahi dara magar us bachhe ki kamzor awaz se. Shayed us ke dil ko maalum tha ke main use ibadatgah ki bench pe kubhi na wapas aane ke liye chor ker ja raha hun!!

(aik choti urdu kahani)

mindsets

There are no good angels or bad angels. 
They are just meant to "run affairs" by setting up human mindsets!