Wednesday, May 28, 2025

Quote

Being a physician, from medical school days, I had to let go a lot of social pleasures, weddings, parties and events. Now it does not even bother me. It still reminds me a quote by one senior physician when we started clinical rotations in med school: 

"A cat that dreams to be a lion must first lose its appetite for rats"

Saturday, May 24, 2025

Thursday, May 22, 2025

A Chinese Proverb

‘One happy event prevents the occurrence of three disasters.’ ~ A Chinese proverb

Sunday, May 18, 2025

Khuda ki lathi (aik aur baat)

 Do batain to sab batate hain ke:

Khuda ki lathi be awaz hai

aur

Khuda ka haan der hai, andher nahi

Magar ye batana aksar bhool jaate hain ke: Khuda ki lathi us jagah paRti (strike) hai, jahan sab se ziyada takleef ho - izzat, shuarat, taqat, maal, makan, aulad, fun (skill), ilm ya kuch aur - jis cheez per insaan ko naaz ho wahi cheez cheen li jaati hai

Sunday, May 04, 2025

Two philosophies on food in fridge

(My son was visiting from college)

"Dad, your fridge is always empty?"

"Yes, my son, I don't like to hoard food more than it's needed."

"If you ask Faraya Aani (aunt), she thinks the stuffed-packed fridge gives you a sense of being blessed by the Almighty, so don't complain about other things in life."

"I guess, we both are right!"

Wednesday, April 30, 2025

Childhood Memory

‏ابھی ڈسپوزیبل سرنج نہیں آئی تھیں تو محلے کے ڈاکٹر صاحب کیتلی کے کھولتے پانی میں ڈوبی سوئی کو چمٹی سے نکال کر اس ٹیکے پر لگاتے اور دوائی بھر کے تھوڑا سا ایک نکڑ کی طرف کر کے دو قطرے نکالتے اور کہتے 
" کاکا کچھ نہیں ہوتا سیدھا ہو جا "

شائد آپ بھی شاھد ہوں اس زمانے کے


 


 

Thursday, April 24, 2025

Key to spousal relationship

 "What do you think, what you need as the key for spousal relationship?"

"Respect or love?"

"Those may be right answers at lower level, but what makes a relationship really meaningful and successful is to hold difficult conversation when situation arise with kids, values, relatives, in-laws, finances, porn, attention, nagging, perceived cheating and others."