Saying

I loved this American-Indian (Red-Indian) saying: "If you get in trouble with someone just sit and wait rather give him more rope till he hang himself" !!

Sweet Girl

Whenever I think of "that" girl I can't stop smiling !!

Left relation

It took me 4 years to understand why he always said - Mother of my son !!

Opportunity

The biggest hurdle in availing opportunity is to identify it !!

warsa

Kiya yeh sach hai ke waaldain ke aamal aulad ko bhugatne parte hain !! (Is it true that children bear the burden of parent's deed).

Stupid smart

He said: "I was stupid to get married but smart to get kids" !

One Line

She had unusual lines on her palm and all lines were deep and strong except for one line which was all destroyed running vertical in the middle of palm.

refusing

Ye kese mumkin he ke koi aap se koi cheez maange - aapke paas ho aur aap na dain ! (How it is possible that someone ask something which you have but you refuse).

Let it snow

Whenever loftiest part of nature smiles - it snow !!

Let it snow - Let it snow - Let it snow

Ego

Beta gubare main jitni hawa ziyada hogi woh utni hi unchaai se apne ghar se utni hi door, 'phus' kisi rah main para hoga ! (Son ! as much air baloon will have it will fall from that top, way away from its origin - all busted).

Abdullah !!

The whole game is to cross the line of to be "His Servant" !!

Milk

Yes ! it makes me believe in God to see that baby's food is ready with her arrival in most natural and beautiful way !

Biased observation

Is this true or just my biased observation that if you are a movie hero you will never go bald !!.

One thing

There is nothing to fear about death. Everyone has to embark on that journey sooner or later. But I just give damn about only one thing. With each death the most mysterious and amazing thing also die - a brain !!

Fear !

Do we get born with fear of darkness, storms, thunders embedded in our genes at the time of conception. Or is it 9 months of available maternal environment and mode of birth (vaginal vs C-Section vs mother long labor) carve the stone ?. Or does first few months of life draw the full map. And were we breast or bottle fed and so many other unseen etc etc etc etc. ?????????

Fascinated by pretty train

He instructed his son: "Don't jump on pretty wooden train with green curtains to occupy seat quickly leaving your regular luggage behind. It may not be there after a while !!. Better keep them with you".

Bol !!

Its important to write as when you will not be there, only one thing will give your ideals and thoughts to your kids - your writings !!!. As Faiz said:

bol ye thoRa waqt bahut hai
jism-o-zabaN ki maut se pehlay

Speak, this brief time is enough
Before death of body and tongue:

Adult School

He was telling his son: "My job is my school".

Tale of two cities

New York is a city where you make one wrong turn and your day is gone but good part is that eventually subway will get you home by the end of the day, irrespective of token !. But there is another city - Boston - whose name is even enough to wakeup any asleep and will say as N says, "Sir!".

Elders in house

Jis ghar se buzurg khatam ho jaayain aur buzurgon ki tasveerain tuk deewaron se utar li jaayain wahan saqafat aur riwayat nahi rehti ! - hur nasal apna naya khel kehlti hai. (In the house where elders don't exist and even their pictures taken down from wall - culture and tradition dies - each generation play its own game).

Fishing

You know why people love fishing. As you catch fish and see her 'wiggled' and 'prisoned' fully in your power - it gives immense pleasure to your ego and thats what fishing is all about !!

Abrasive humor

I liked his abrasive humor as he spoke such a naked truth on my face and I didn't feel offended at all!

Mountain

There is no bigger mountain than knowledge and there is no deeper ditch than knowledge!

Internet addiction

Addiction to internet is actually way more complex as it is way more intellectual. It destroys careers, families, relationships, characters but beyond all may even cause death !!. This is the second death I read in last few months related to "Net":

Friday, November 11, 2005; Posted: 3:09 a.m. EST (08:09 GMT)

(CNN) -- Suzanne Gonzales seemed to have everything going for her. A bubbly 19-year-old with loving parents and good friends, she was also a strong student and earned a science scholarship for college. But everything changed one spring day two years ago, when Suzanne's parents, Mike and Mary Gonzales, received the following e-mail.

"Dear Mom, Dad, and Jennifer, I will make this short as I know. It will be hard to deal with. If you haven't heard by now, I've passed away," the e-mail read.

Alone in a Florida hotel room, just miles from her college apartment, Suzanne methodically prepared and swallowed a lethal cocktail of potassium cyanide, lay down on the bed and died. But Suzanne's case has an unusual twist. She frequented an Internet newsgroup called called ASH, short for Alt.Suicide.Holiday. Members of this news group trade advice on how to commit suicide, using code words like 'transitioning' and 'exiting' and 'catching the bus.' Suzanne found this group nine weeks before she died, posting nearly one hundred messages detailing her plans. "My chosen method is potassium cyanide....I've stopped eating so my tummy will be nice and acidic," one of Suzanne's posts read.

Suzanne's father claims the newsgroup gave her everything she needed to kill herself. "The knowledge, the tools, their psychological encouragement. ... She was led to her death," Mike Gonzales said. An archived section of the site called "The Methods File" contains a list of recipes, recommendations and tips on the best and worst ways to commit suicide. Suzanne's dad believes one of those messages taught her how to illegally obtain and use cyanide to end her life. And he was horrified to learn that an older ASH member who goes by the alias "River" may have helped her. "Suzy had me proof-read her notes and we went over all the details of her exit, just to be safe," reads one ASH message from "River."................................ Read full story along with group's reply at http://www.cnn.com/2005/US/11/04/suicide.internet/index.html

Aurat ke Zewar

He instructed his son on his wedding: "Never count back the money once you hand over to your woman and ever never even in your dreams think about her jewellery" !

woh kaun thi

Us gaaun main sare-shaam se hi aik ajib sa aehsaas rehta tha. Bijli bhi aksar gaaib rehti thi. Youn lugta tha jese us gaun main baarish bhi kuch ziyada hi hoti thi. 'Cul de sac' pe bund andheri ghulabi rang ki chaar manzila e'marat ke baare main log kehte the 'aaseb zada' hai magar poora gaaun aur us ke makeen hi aaseb zada lagte the. Main ne aur meri biwi ne aik lukre se bane makan main ghar liya tha jis ke aage ke farsh ke lukre ukhre huwe the.

Paros ke makan main rehne waali behnon main se aik lurki hamare haan aati jaati thi. Saanwli aur moti si thi aur plastic ke frame wali ainak lagati thi. Aik din woh mere lihaf main zabardasti meri taango ke beech ghush aai...meri biwi ghar main thi. main ne use zabardasti nikala magar phir bhi meri biwi ki nazar par gai. Ajib lurki thi, us ne meri biwi ke saamne mere hont chum liye. Meri biwi ke tun badan main aag lug gai. Hum gaaun main naye the. Main ne jhagra munaasib na samjhte huwe use samjhane ki kaushih ki: 'Dekho ye meri biwi hai aur mujhe chumne ka huq sirf ise hai' magar woh dhamki de ker chali gai: "main use kahun gi tumhe dekh le'.

Hum ne woh gaaun chor diya aur shaher aa gaye. Aik subah bister pe yun mehsoos huwa jese kisi ne mere kaan main siti bajaai aur koi jese mere sir pe sawar ho gaya. Jese mere dimag ko bijli ke jhatke lug rahe hon ya mirgi ka daura ho. Mera saans bikul ruk gaya. Main ne mehsoos kiya "woh" wahin hai. Meri biwi ki aankh khul gai aur mujhe aik jhalak yun mehsoos hui jese woh chali gai. Meri biwi na kaha: "woh yanhi thi.woh yanhi thi" !!

Mera saans bahaal hone main kuch waqt laga. Hmmm..Woh kaun thi - lumbe baalon wali patli dubli sufed libas main nikhre rang aur gol mun wali !!

Raising a happy kid

If you want to raise happy kids, let them walk once they learn to walk !!

raising the bar

We think that at age 18 - kids get mature enough to make wise decisions in life without parents support - I am afraid we may need to raise that bar to age 36 !!

unfortunate

How unfortunate that mother is, whose 1 year old child wants to put head on her chest and sleep but she puts her into the crib !

Stage

This is a sign of achievement of one basic level (of knowledge) if someday with confidence you can say: "I don't know this".

Darguzar

Biggest flaw of human mind is to establish absolute postulation despite having blind spots and limited information.

Darguzar se achhi aadat koi nahi. (Best habit is to let things go).