Somebody left comment regarding my previous posts on kids. I think this comment itself deserve a post.
And let me tell you why we never got second kid. My wife had very complicated pregnancy. She survived. I don't want her to go through same nightmare again putting her life at risk. Beside possible handicap kids and bad relationship, sometime strong bond also prevent you from having kids. Strange!!
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These comments indicate the painful situations. Cant argue against not havng a child. Older thinking used to be, a child may strengthen the bond. Yes but it can only do so if both have WISHED a child and not just let it happen.
Islam has allowed individual "birth control" for there is reason here. OR I should say Islam does not prevent birth control under such circumstances.
Islamic teachings make BOTH spouses responsible and not just the man Like you see in Pakistan or less developed societies) or just the woman (like you see in over developes societies--calling it woman's choice to have abortion or whatever.)
I was not anticipating so many real life painful senarios. Indeed as poet said
Kisi aankh agar num nahi hai
to ye na samjho use gum nahi hai
i grt to acknowlegde those who are uninhibited and share their lives with the others
Ridma you can share too with keeping yr id annonymous
but what is the need to go anonymous??
There is no need. Pleease write. This blog is all about sharing stories from ou every day life.
Strong relationship don't create barriers...how would u define mumtaz who died during birth of 14 kid...was the bond weaker or why the stronger bond haven't prohibited kids...ur perspective gets miopic at times...we humn thinks we r wiser to decide nd to dtermine
No this is not my statement. This is something - which is posted as comment. I think - each couple is unique. This is what one person wrote his reasons of not having more kids.
This blog is all about how stories unfold in ppls lives.
this blog is unfolding of ur thoughts not of ppl....ur perspective abt people...and there is difference in both
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