Hamare aik rishte ke mamu hain - Ramzu (Ramzan) mamu. (Ye purani post, Aaj Jumma hai, se dusre wale mamu hain) . Ramzu mamu bachpun hi se ghar chor bhage. Street smart the. Khub daulat kamai. Ab unki umer koi 60 ke aas paas hogi. Koi 4 baras pehle un ki begum breast cancer se faut ho gain. Bachhe bare ho ker apni zindagi guzar rahe hain. Ramzu Mamu ke paas daulat ki kami nahi. Peshawar se 20 baras ki larki biha ker america laye.
Ab mere aur mere cousin ki guftago suniya:
Me; "yaar ye paisa bari kaam ki cheez hai"
Cousin: "Bus paise ka hi khel hai. lurki gharib thi. Bohut saare bhai bahen the. Us ne financial security dekhi, shadi ker li"
Me: "Bohut si aurtain financial security ke liye shadi kerti hain. Us ne kiya bura kiya"
Cousin: "I think, to marry for financial security, is just a civilized form of prostitution" !
6 comments:
And what about the men who marry for green card, citizen ship and father-in-law's money..
Are they male prosti. or just f***king B*****d
Both.
and we have already established they are kuttai.
Personally, I think - its both way.
I don't see any harm when both parties are upfront about their needs and conditions while getting married but to veil with love to manipulate and decieve other is WRONG.
I dont think I can match the level that describes the explicit P-word, at least in my dictionary it would not be considered as a decent term.
While thinking a bit deep and going back a few decades when majority of women were not as self supported, I mean our elders, would we apply this term to those preceding generations?
I would be more careful in picking a term to describe such scenarios as is quoted on behalf of "cousin" in the closing sentence.
izuber - salam
I hope, this post has not offended you but purpose of this blog for me is to put humans' stories, thoughts and life as I find around me.
As I said in comments earlier: I don't see any harm when both parties have understanding about their needs and conditions while getting married but to veil with love to manipulate and decieve other person is WRONG.
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