Suna hai,, bohat ziyada mohabbat bhi saamne wali ki jaan le leti hai
Aadmi kisi ke gird muhabbat ka hisaar zaroor rakhe, magar itna bhi obsessive na ho jayye ke agle ka dum ghut jaaye..
Suna hai,, bohat ziyada mohabbat bhi saamne wali ki jaan le leti hai
Aadmi kisi ke gird muhabbat ka hisaar zaroor rakhe, magar itna bhi obsessive na ho jayye ke agle ka dum ghut jaaye..
Lately, as modern medicine has advanced, many terms have been invented for medical care providers. There is only one thing that distinguishes any medicine man or healer from run-of-the-mill physicians/providers..
"A Human Touch"
Unfortunately, now I see fewer and fewer doctors touching the patient. The warmth, healing power, connection, or even, call it a placebo effect—all have been lost in modern medicine by the loss of just one small gesture.
We are now more and more treating numbers, charts, labs, and computers. AI is making it even worse!
AH!
Carl Sagan once told his students in an assignment:
Ye duniya Allah Mian ke hoshruba bandoN se bhari paRi hai. Kal aik sahab farmaane lage:
"Farz to jun-tun dil kaRa ker ke paRh leta hun, magar asal namaz ka maza to nafal main aata hai! Farz chuTTi hai to chuT jaaye per nafal paRhte raho!"
Main ne poocha: Is baat ki kiya mantiq
Jawab mila: "Farz to dande ke zor pe hai, per nafal to khud ke dil se hai,, asal baat to wahi hui"
There are two kinds of people in the crowd.
First, who wants everyone to know who they are. Second, who would prefer no one know them.
My bias is that the second type of people are deeper.
As Ghalib said:
تاریخ کی قبروں میں اُتر کیوں نہیں جاتے
You are lucky if, in your dominant hand, you have a line running parallel to your life line (sister line) at your thenar eminence (Mount Venus). This is your guardian angel. And, if it runs throughout your life line, you are super lucky.
- Aur jante ho ye guardian ángel kaun hote hain? ye tumhara koi buzurg hota hai.
Jis ghar se buzurg aur unki duain chali jaain, wahan se zindagi bhi ruth jaati hai - bohat akeli ho jaati hai!
ہفتہ، ۲ اگست، ۲۰۲۵ء
Kitne badnasseb hain woh kaandhe - jin per kabhi kisi bachhe ne aankhain nahi mondi!
One thing I have learned from taking leadership courses from many gurus is that it's not the decision itself that matters, but how you live with it.
During our residency, we learned about a legendary Pakistani resident who was fired not once, not twice, but three times from residency programs.
Accidentally, I was scheduled to interview him as a senior resident in my third year for his fourth time as a resident.
After the interview, I told my program director (PD), "I don't think he was fired prior due to any unethical act, but he is very dumb!"
My PD looked at me and said, "Now that he's got us, I guess this is our job to get him up."
Fast forward 30 years -
That Pakistani resident is a well-published professor of Cardiology in a highly esteemed University Program!
The addiction to one relationship keeps a human away from many other addictions
I assure you, you will love this episode on PBS
۔ڈاکٹر علی شریعتی
Well…. She has widely metastatic parotid cancer, and should have been dead months ago. I think the financial toxicity is greater than moral burden what social work or patient advocacy can offer.
(A text)
I still kept the watch my father gifted me on passing metric exam
Every morning at 7:30, old Martin would open his tiny watch shop in the heart of the city. At 78, his hands were still the steadiest around. People said he fixed watches the way a healer tends to wounds—with infinite patience.
He trembled in his heart, and called after years.
She said with quivering voice: "wrong number"
Some spouses want their partner to walk behind. Frequently, they turn around and find no one!
“Show me a hero and I’ll write you a tragedy”
(امرتا پریتم)
Viktor Frankl, an Austrian neurologist and psychiatrist, used his profound Holocaust experiences to create one of history’s most impactful psychotherapy approaches – logotherapy. His harrowing journey through concentration camps significantly shaped his work and philosophy, making his life and career a testament to the human spirit’s resilience even in the darkest times.
Men settle where there is peace, women bring peace where they're treated well.
(Shared by a physician at a doctors' group)
I am not one of those for various reasons, but its nice to be well-dressed.
In Latin they says: "Vestis virum facit"
means, clothes make the man
(shared by a colleague)
An old colleague in the residency days used to quip: "We internists are like fleas!"
" How so?" I asked.
"Well. When the patient is dying, and while we fleas preside over the death of the patient! We general internists, cardiologists, nephrologists, and infectious disease specialists are the only ones hanging around! The surgeons are first to sign off when they see a dying patient, the GI guy, after having scoped up and down, is nowhere to be found! The Family Doc mourns the loss of a patient from the practice, while the hospital admin celebrates fewer losses from the DRG."
(unfortunately, the way healthcare has evolved in USA, I have to agree with this).
(Shared by a physician at one of the WhatsApp group)
"If you wan to change the situation, look at the situation with the eye of a woman".
In Nigeria, if a vulture lands on your roof?
Some blessings smell bad at first.
Do the dirty work.
Wait for your wind.
Loyalty is still gold to one partner.
You don’t need to be loud.